My Grandmother passed away a week and a half ago. When my Mom asked me to write a eulogy, I realised that I didn’t actually know my Gran very well. Of course the result of this epiphany is that I started with the inevitable beating up of self. After berating myself for not taking the time and realising that the never was time, sounds strange, but my gran was always busy...anyhow, I decided to rather look at this space from a silver lining perspective.