How To Attract The Life Of Your Dreams

Everybody wants to have a lot of everything. We all want a lot of love, a lot of money, a lot of success, etc. We will often meet people who have a lot of everything and we'll also meet people who don't have a lot and who are likely struggling just to get enough of what they need. Which of these two groups do you fall into and do you feel like it’s time for a major change in your life?

The people who don't have enough, who are struggling just to get what they need share a few things in common - they all have a negative and limiting thought pattern. They also are not focused and don't stick to one thing for very long. There's a sense of desperateness that they say causes them to give up on something often too soon - because they're in such a tight spot - they now need to turn things around immediately - so they want immediate results. In short - things have gotten so bad that they say they can't afford to waste time trying something and waiting for results - they need to turn things around immediately. Unfortunately - this kind of thinking usually makes things worse.

Before you can begin attracting abundance and enjoying success in your life you first have to begin understanding 2 basic principles that are constantly at work. Once you understand these principles you'll be able to better work with them so that you create and attract abundance and success in life.

When you were a kid, did you play with magnets? They were almost magical, weren't they? It was always exhilarating to bring the magnet close to another object and to begin to feel that slight pulling sensation followed by the--snap--as the magnet and the other object became one. And, equally, it was always a little disappointing when the magnet didn't stick to the hoped for object of attraction.

Do you think this magnetic principle is true in your own life? Do you believe that you can attract the things you want--like success, power, and self-confidence?

So you can see that the first principle is called the law of attraction and this simply states that you are a magnet for what you think - essentially what you think is what you attract. Human beings are like magnets and the principle holds true: like attracts like. Whatever is in your mind at any given moment is the thing you are inviting to come and live with you, just as a magnet "invites" iron ore, so too, you attract the things that are in your mind. If you affirm your positive thoughts, you will attract greater and greater good in your life. However, the opposite is also true. If you affirm self doubt and worry thoughts, you will multiply these pessimistic affirmations and attract more and more negativity into your life. Here's how it works. Your thoughts create a field of energy around you that attracts people, situations and circumstances that are in alignment with what you are thinking. Any thought that is repeated with emotion will bring to you people, ideas, opportunities, situations and circumstances that represent those thoughts. It doesn't matter whether these thoughts are positive or negative - it doesn't matter if they are good for you or not good for you - you will attract what you think.

For example: If you think that it's difficult to find a job then you will attract situations, ideas and people that will make it difficult for you to find a job.

Next you have to Focus. When you focus your mind on something, when you make something a priority - when you constantly think about making something happen and insist on finding ways to make it happen - you will succeed. This happens because your mind is in constant motion - focused on making something happen and at the same time it is constantly directing the subconscious to create situations, attract people and ideas to make something happen. So if finding a job is important - make it a priority - keep your mind focused on finding a job, listen to the people that enter your life, pay attention to the ideas that come - insist on making it all happen and it will. You have to have a clear idea of what your goal is, you have to hold it in your mind continuously so that your subconscious mind can attract the people, situations and circumstances that you need in order to achieve it.

The people who are successful, wealthy and have abundance work with their mind and subconscious mind to create what they want. If it's not a priority - it's not important enough - and if it's not important enough your subconscious won't act on it. When something is a priority you think about it - but you have to think about finding ways to make it a reality. Worrying is not going to work. Complaining won't work. Focus on finding a solution, focus on attracting abundance and that's what you will get.

What You Think Is What You Get

The next principle is to understand that your reality is a reflection of your thoughts and beliefs - that what you think is what you have and what you will continue to get in your life. Your reality is not just a reflection of your daily thoughts - it's also a reflection of what is in your subconscious mind. Everything that is taking place in your reality is a mirror of something that is going on within your mind and subconscious mind.

So if you are struggling to make ends meet or if you're in debt - then examine the thoughts and beliefs that you have about wealth and see if this is a part of your reality. If it is a priority then you need to change those thoughts and beliefs. How do you do this? You start by getting your mind to focus on what you want and by training it to send the right messages to your subconscious mind - so that you attract an abundance of wealth and success.

Your reality will always represent what is going on in your mind and subconscious mind. Your attitude will be reflected back to you by the attitude of those close to you and around you on a daily basis. If you are positive and optimistic - you'll have positive and optimistic people around you. If you have negative and pessimistic people around you - then you know that you are negative and pessimistic. You can also look at your relationships to better understand what is going on internally. If you have happy, loving and harmonious relationships - then you will find that you are happy, loving and at peace on various levels - especially in the relationship. If you have a negative, difficult, unsettling relationship - then you will find that you are negative, difficult and unsettled.

Next - take a look at your wealth - see if you have an abundance of wealth - if your financial house in order? Is there money in the bank? If not - then a part of you is focused on lack and not abundance. It shows that internally you have not prepared for wealth and success.

Now don't get upset by what you find - and don't get angry. You can change this - by controlling your thoughts and beliefs. The only area that you are in complete control of is your mind. Only you can control your mind. Get your mind and subconscious mind focused on wealth, success, happiness and the things you want and you'll start attracting the opportunities into your life

What You Can Do To Attract Abundance

If you want to create abundance, wealth, success and happiness then start paying more attention to your thoughts. Take a look at the thoughts you have regularly and start feeding your mind thoughts of abundance, wealth, success and happiness. Get your mind to focus on what you want - make things that are important a priority. Stay focused. Keep giving your mind new information; search out possibilities instead of complaining or thinking about the limitations. Don't feel sorry for yourself - take charge of your mind and direct your subconscious mind to create the situations you want. See yourself living the life you want - and don't tolerate any negative thoughts.

Doing this regularly will get your mind and subconscious mind working for you - so that you begin attracting the situations you want and need to create an abundance of wealth and success. The Law of Attraction means that like is attracted unto like. If you can align our vibration with what we truly desire, then you can attract anything that you want intoy our life. Attracting what we want is actually quite a subtle process.

Harness and Focus Your Energy
This is pivotal. It's more difficult to attract what you desire in life if you're constantly tired and fatigued. The Law of Attraction means that you'll attract more of the same. And it's hard to receive what the Universe wants to give you if you are out of the office firefighting all the time. Learn to identify what gives you energy and what drains you. Your diet, environment, level of self care, the people you mix with (beware of energy vampires!) all influence your level of energy.

Release Resistance
We often get in our own way in blocking what we want. And one of the ways in which we do this is by resisting and refusing to let go of old thoughts, attitudes, beliefs and even desires. It often manifests itself in "busyness" (so you don't have time to think!), inflexibility and "shoulding" on yourself. Set your intention to evaluate your beliefs and ask if they still serve you well. If not, then you know what to do.

If you are ready to begin attracting the ideals you truly desire, like prosperity, success, security, and self confidence, then you should be spending your time paying attention to what you are thinking about during your day.

"Think the things you want. The profoundest philosophy is locked up in these few words. Think of them clearly, persistently, concentrating upon them with all the force and might of your mind, and struggle toward them with all your energy. This is the way to make yourself a magnet for the things you want.

Here is a 3-Step exercise you can do for a week to see what you are thinking about during the day.

Step #1: Get a notebook and pen and carry it with you where ever you go.

Step #2: Write down all your thoughts during a given day.

Step #3: After a week review your findings and see what you are thinking about. Is is Prosperity? Success?, Self-Confidence? That's what you must be thinking to attract the ideas you desire.

Attracting what we want into our lives is as much a process of letting go as it is actively pursuing what we want. In fact going after our goals with a vengeance can be counterproductive. Effort doesn't always equal productivity or outcome. Sometimes the amount of effort can often seem disproportional to the actual result. Get out of your own way and use any of the above tools to help you attract the life you want.

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